AI: Pandora’s Box for Authors, or an Unexpected Ally? Navigating the Fear and Finding the Opportunity

https://youtu.be/Iyd4EkgHJkg?si=T3mQjterOHzG0wnl Hey y'all, Sumo Sized Ginger here. Let's talk about the giant, algorithm-powered elephant in the room: Artificial Intelligence. If you're a writer, author, or any kind of content creator, chances are you've got some strong feelings about it. And frankly, you have every right to. The Elephant: Training Data and the Feeling of Invasion … Continue reading AI: Pandora’s Box for Authors, or an Unexpected Ally? Navigating the Fear and Finding the Opportunity

Toxic People Still Suck: Day Five – Navigating the Nuances of “Cutting Them Out”

https://youtu.be/Dz7BqupYQOU?si=s2PDDZAd6B15-K_N Toxic People Still Suck: Day Five - Navigating the Nuances of "Cutting Them Out" Hey y'all, it's your Sumo-sized Ginger again! Yesterday, we talked about the importance of removing toxic people from your life, and I ended with a pretty blunt call to action: "Cut them out!" I stand by that in principle, but … Continue reading Toxic People Still Suck: Day Five – Navigating the Nuances of “Cutting Them Out”

Toxic People Still Suck: Day Four (and Forever)

https://youtube.com/shorts/tdIXy4_SzMg?si=74dNR0CvN-EY2DAu Hey y'all, it's your Sumo-sized Ginger, back again. And guess what? Toxic people still suck. We're on day four of this little series, and hopefully, by now, you've started to get a clearer picture of who the energy vampires are in your life. We've talked about how they make you feel (drained, anxious, generally … Continue reading Toxic People Still Suck: Day Four (and Forever)

Day 3: The Slow Poison – Recognizing Toxic Put-Downs

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/9srUulxUyTA Day 3: The Slow Poison - Recognizing Toxic Put-Downs Hey y'all, Sumo-Sized Ginger here, back for Day 3 of our journey to identify and deal with the toxic people in our lives! Yesterday, we talked about some obvious signs of toxicity. Today, we're diving a little deeper, into the subtle ways toxic people can … Continue reading Day 3: The Slow Poison – Recognizing Toxic Put-Downs

Unlock the Secrets to Spotting Toxic Relationships: One Key is Reciprocity.

https://youtube.com/shorts/xjMRShdtlNs?si=xBygtUMeaIjkz791 Hey y'all! Yesterday, we talked about how toxic people make you feel (drained, anxious, generally worse after interacting with them). Today, building on that video (which you can watch here), we're diving into another key indicator of toxicity: reciprocity, or rather, the lack of it. Friendships, at their core, are built on a mutual … Continue reading Unlock the Secrets to Spotting Toxic Relationships: One Key is Reciprocity.

Sumo’s Guide to Toxic Friendships: Red Flags and Real Talk Day 1

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/X-QQz_YEc_I Sumo Says: That Drained Feeling? It Might Be a Toxic Friend Hey y'all, Sumo Science Ginger back at it again! You know, we talk a lot about the good stuff in life, but today we're diving into something that can really weigh you down: toxic friendships. As I mentioned in my latest video, these … Continue reading Sumo’s Guide to Toxic Friendships: Red Flags and Real Talk Day 1

Long Live the King: Video is Back!

Video is Still King (And It's Back on the Blog!) Hey everyone, I've got something a little different (but also comfortably familiar) for you today. I realized recently that I'd been limiting how I connect and express myself online. There was a time when I regularly shared my YouTube videos right here on the blog, … Continue reading Long Live the King: Video is Back!

How do you tell a friend to quit fighting for you?

I'm struggling to explain something to my friend. He's still angry at the person who hurt me, and I understand that. I've felt that anger for him, towards those who've wronged him. But I've moved on. I'm not angry anymore. I need him to understand that my experiences, even the painful ones, have shaped me. … Continue reading How do you tell a friend to quit fighting for you?